For the sake of our children and the generations to come, let us choose reconciliation—not as an event but as a way of life, a guiding principle that shapes our actions and decisions, writes Dr Iqbal Survé
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By Dr Iqbal Survé
As we pause to commemorate Reconciliation Day, we are called to reflect deeply on what this day signifies in the ongoing story of our nation. Reconciliation is not a mere observance—it is a profound act of courage, a testament to our shared humanity, and an unyielding commitment to the promise of a better tomorrow for all South Africans.
Ours is a nation forged in the crucible of struggle and resilience. We have endured the brutality of colonialism, the dehumanising legacy of apartheid, and the persistent inequalities that still challenge our progress. Yet, through these trials, we have shown that unity is not just an ideal but a powerful force capable of transforming pain into progress.
Reconciliation Day is a reminder of this truth. It challenges us to confront the injustices of our past with honesty and humility. It calls on us to listen to one another with empathy, to heal where we have hurt, and to build bridges where there were once only walls. This is not an easy path—it demands unwavering resolve and a willingness to face uncomfortable truths—but it is the only way to secure a future worthy of the sacrifices of those who came before us.
Reconciliation, at its core, is about understanding. We must seek to understand the lived realities of all South Africans—the wounds of those who suffered under apartheid, the fears of those still grappling with uncertainty, and the aspirations of those striving for a better life. Understanding is the foundation upon which we can build trust, and trust is the bedrock of any cohesive society.
The timeless African philosophy of ubuntu—"I am because we are"—offers a profound blueprint for reconciliation. It reminds us that our destinies are intertwined, that our humanity is collective. As a nation, we cannot thrive if some are left behind. Reconciliation is not about erasing our differences; it is about celebrating them as the threads that weave our nation’s rich and vibrant tapestry.
Yet, reconciliation cannot exist in a vacuum. It requires action. Words, while important, are not enough. We must confront the systemic inequalities that perpetuate division in our society. Economic disparities, racial tensions, and social injustices remain glaring obstacles to true unity. Reconciliation demands a commitment to addressing these challenges with urgency and purpose. It means creating opportunities for all South Africans, ensuring that every individual has the chance to contribute to and benefit from our nation’s prosperity.
This journey begins within our homes and communities. Reconciliation is not the sole responsibility of the government or institutions—it is a collective endeavor. It is in the values we instill in our children, the conversations we have with our neighbors, and the respect we show to one another, regardless of our differences. Each of us has a role to play in fostering the spirit of understanding and unity that reconciliation requires.
Our leaders, too, bear a special responsibility. Leadership is not a privilege but a duty—a duty to serve with integrity and to prioritise the needs of the people above all else. South Africa needs leaders who embody the principles of reconciliation in their actions, who actively work to dismantle inequality, and who inspire confidence through their vision and moral clarity.
As we reflect on this day, let us remember how far we have come, but also how much further we must go. Let us honor the sacrifices of those who fought for our democracy by committing ourselves to its principles—equality, justice, and freedom for all. Reconciliation is not a passive endeavor; it is an active pursuit that demands participation from every corner of our society.
In the spirit of ubuntu, let us move forward together. Let us heal the wounds of the past, not by ignoring them, but by acknowledging them and choosing to do better. Let us turn our diversity into our greatest strength, our pain into shared purpose, and our dreams into collective action.
Reconciliation is not just about repairing the fractures of yesterday; it is about laying the foundation for a future that is inclusive, equitable, and united. As Nelson Mandela wisely said, "Reconciliation means working together to correct the legacy of past injustice." This is the work that lies before us—not just on this day but every day.
The road ahead is long and challenging, but it is one we must travel together. For the sake of our children and the generations to come, let us choose reconciliation—not as an event but as a way of life, a guiding principle that shapes our actions and decisions.
Together, we can build a South Africa that stands as a beacon of hope and humanity to the world. Together, we can ensure that the story of our nation is one of triumph, unity, and progress for all.
* Dr Iqbal Surve is the Executive Chairman of Independent Media and Chairman of Sekunjalo.
** The views expressed do not necessarily reflect the views of IOL or Independent Media.
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