Man Candy: Khaya Dlanga delivers wit and wisdom in "Life is like that sometimes"

Known for his witty humour and thought-provoking captions online, Khaya Dlanga has cemented his place as one of social media’s most beloved commentators. With a background in marketing, Dlanga has seamlessly used his storytelling prowess to offer advice and share personal reflections with his audience. This gift for blending wisdom with humour led to his debut book, In My Arrogant Opinion, marking the beginning of a successful literary journey. Over the past decade, he has published 3 books—each offering a deeper glimpse into his life and musings. His latest work, Life Is Like That Sometimes, published under Pan Macmillan, continues this tradition, offering readers a raw, reflective, and often humorous exploration of life’s unpredictable nature.

In Life Is Like That Sometimes, Dlanga takes readers on a deeply personal journey, weaving together stories that reflect on love, loss, identity, and the complexities of human relationships. With his signature blend of warmth and wit, he invites us into the pivotal moments that have shaped his life—from his formative years in the rural Eastern Cape to navigating profound grief and making sense of life’s most challenging experiences. Through vivid storytelling and introspective reflections, Dlanga shares not just his triumphs, but also his setbacks—transforming them into meaningful lessons about resilience, purpose, and the pursuit of healing.

At the heart of the book is a moving exploration of grief, particularly the loss of his mother—a defining experience that prompts him to confront life’s uncertainties with courage and grace. Dlanga’s ability to articulate the rawness of his pain while simultaneously offering hope is one of the book’s most powerful qualities. Whether he is recounting moments of mischief from his youth or grappling with the profound questions of adulthood, his voice remains relatable and authentic, striking a perfect balance between humour and vulnerability.

As a bestselling author—most notably of To Quote Myself—Dlanga once again bares his soul in this latest offering. His reflections are more than just personal anecdotes; they are universal truths wrapped in humour and honesty. With each chapter, he delivers nuggets of wisdom drawn from his lived experiences, encouraging readers to embrace life’s unpredictability and find meaning in even the most trying times.

What makes Life Is Like That Sometimes especially compelling is Dlanga’s unwavering self-introspection. His ability to examine his own failures, extract lessons, and share them candidly is a testament to his growth and authenticity. Whether discussing relationships, cultural identity, or the everyday challenges of modern life, his insights resonate deeply, reminding us all that life’s twists and turns are what ultimately shape who we become.

With his trademark charm and sincerity, Khaya Dlanga once again proves why he remains a powerful and influential voice. Life Is Like That Sometimes is not just a book—it is an invitation to reflect, to laugh, and to embrace the beauty and messiness of life. In a world that often feels chaotic, Dlanga’s words are a comforting reminder that even in the face of uncertainty, there is always room for humour, hope, and growth.